NM中的合法分离A legal separation isn't only a step in the process toward divorce. Instead, a formal separation is a legal designation with particular ramifications. 因此, before you petition the court for a legal separation, it's important to understand what you're asking for and what the consequences may be for you.

Different Types of Separation in New Mexico

Not all marriage separations are the same. In New Mexico, you and your spouse may decide to have a:

  • 审判分离. You don't need the court’s permission to live apart on a trial basis. However, despite your separate living arrangements, you'll still be considered married. All laws concerning property, 债务, 支持, and inheritance continue to apply to you and your spouse.
  • 永久分离. If you and your spouse don't intend to remain married, you may seek a permanent separation. But once again, you'll still be considered married under the law. Since you're seeking to live apart permanently, it's important to create a separation agreement to determine who's responsible for 债务s, what happens to assets accrued during the separation period, and what the custody and visitation arrangements are for 你的孩子们. If you decide on a permanent separation, 在大多数情况下, you'll also want to seek a legal separation.
  • 合法分居. A legal separation is similar to a divorce. It follows the same legal process, but instead of formally ending your marriage, a legal separation separates your financial lives and creates certainty for 你的孩子们. To be legally separated, you and your spouse must live apart and intend to do so permanently. During this process, you'll divide property, determine liability for outstanding 债务s, decide on child custody issues, and determine spousal and child 支持. However, unlike a divorce, you're not allowed to marry while separated.

If you decide on legal separation, you must file a petition for legal separation with the court. Once the issues in your case are resolved, the court extends a final decree of legal separation.

Reasons for a Legal Separation

There are various reasons why people choose to pursue a legal separation rather than a divorce. Some couples no longer wish to live together but:

  • Want to remain legally married for religious reasons.
  • Need to retain certain benefits, such as health insurance or Social Security, for a spouse.
  • Want to legally separate 债务s so only one spouse is responsible for them.
  • Need space apart, but aren’t sure divorce is the right option.

Whether a legal separation is right for you is a personal decision to review with a family law attorney. There are costs and paperwork associated with obtaining a legal separation—many of which are duplicated for divorce proceedings. If your ultimate goal is a divorce, then a formal separation isn't always necessary.

What to Include in a Legal Separation Agreement

The process for getting a legal separation in New Mexico is similar to getting a divorce. Your agreement with your spouse should include:

  • Child custody and visitation arrangements
  • Child 支持 information
  • Spousal 支持 information
  • How property and 债务 will be divided

If you and your spouse can't agree on these issues, it's up to the court to decide them for you.


You have a lot at stake if you want a legal separation, just as you do if you seek a divorce. Before you make decisions that may impact you, 你的孩子们, and your family’s finances, take advantage of an opportunity to speak with an experienced 阿尔伯克基 family lawyer to discuss all options.

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